Mark Twain, the legendary American author, once said, “The secret of getting ahead is getting started.”
But what happens when you don’t start on time? What if you’re already late?
That’s where “better late than never” comes in, and honestly, it might be the most forgiving idiom in the English language.
Even this phrase/idiom has been offering people second chances since the 14th century.
That’s over 600 years of humanity collectively agreeing that showing up late beats not showing up at all.
And you know what’s crazier?
According to the studies, only 8% of people actually achieve their New Year’s resolutions.
Because most people abandon their goals by February, thinking “I’ve already failed, so why bother?”
They forget that starting in March, June, or even November is still better than never starting at all.
But this raises questions.
Does “better late than never” excuse chronic lateness?
Is there a point where “too late” actually becomes “never”?
And how do you use this phrase without sounding like you’re making excuses for poor planning?
In this guide, we’ll explore what “better late than never” really means, where it comes from, when to use it , and real-world examples that show why this ancient wisdom still resonates today.
Key Takeaways
Before we start, here’s what you need to know about “better late than never”:
- It’s preferable to do something late than to not do it at all.
- You’ll learn about encouraging delayed action, reducing perfectionism paralysis, celebrating completion over timing.
- Excusing habitual lateness, minimizing the consequences of delays, avoiding accountability.
- In our instant-gratification culture, this phrase reminds us that progress doesn’t have an expiration date, and sometimes the best time to start is right now, even if “on time” has already passed.
What “Better Late Than Never” Really Means
Let’s unpack this deceptively simple phrase and understand why it’s survived centuries of linguistic evolution.
Origin and Context
“Better late than never” is a proverbial expression that communicates a fundamental truth: taking action, even delayed action, is superior to complete inaction.
Let’s understand with a real life example.
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If you promise to water your friend’s plants while they’re on vacation and you forget for three days, watering them on day four is still better than letting them die completely, right?
The plants might be wilted, but they’re salvageable. That’s the essence of this idiom.
The phrase acknowledges reality without sugar-coating it. It doesn’t say “late is just as good as on time” or “timing doesn’t matter.”
Instead, it creates a hierarchy: On time is best, late is second-best, and never is unacceptable.
Here’s where it gets interesting, though.
The idiom carries an implicit permission structure.
It gives people psychological permission to move forward despite having missed a deadline, opportunity, or ideal timing.
In a culture increasingly obsessed with optimization and perfect timing, this phrase is radically compassionate.
And the research from the Harvard Business Review shows that analysis paralysis: the state of overthinking to the point of inaction, affects decision-making at every level.
People delay launching businesses, starting health routines, or pursuing education because they’ve missed what they perceive as the “right” window.
“Better late than never” challenges that thinking. It essentially says:
The right time was yesterday. The second-best time is today. The worst time is never.
Some people say “it is better to learn late than never,” particularly when discussing education or skill development.
And honestly? That reframe alone can be life-changing.
Where This Idiom Comes From
Every idiom has a story, and “better late than never” has roots that stretch back further than you might expect.
The earliest known written record appears in Geoffrey Chaucer’s Canterbury Tales (circa 1386), though the exact phrasing differs from modern usage.
The sentiment that delayed action surpasses inaction appears across multiple cultures and languages.
The phrase gained widespread popularity in English during the 16th and 17th centuries, appearing in proverb collections and literary works.
By the 1800s, it had cemented itself as a standard expression in both British and American English.
What’s fascinating is how the idiom’s core message remains unchanged despite cultural shifts.
Whether you’re talking about 14th-century England or modern-day corporate culture, the principle holds: completion matters more than perfect timing.
In contemporary usage, you’ll hear variations like “better late than never” in standard contexts, while some people prefer “it’s better late than never” for a more conversational tone.
The phrase has even influenced popular culture.
There’s a “Better Late Than Never” streaming show that aired on NBC from 2016-2018, featuring celebrities traveling together.
The title perfectly captured the show’s theme of older men going on adventures they’d delayed for decades.
The show’s success demonstrated how this centuries-old idiom still resonates with modern audiences facing their own delayed dreams.
“Better late than never” endures because regret over missed timing is timeless, people in 1400 worried about being late just like we do today.
The difference? They didn’t have productivity apps telling them they’d failed.
Everyday Examples of “Better Late Than Never”
The beauty of this idiom is how it shows up in virtually every area of life, from minor daily situations to major life decisions.
1. Academic Scenarios
You meant to submit your assignment by the midnight deadline, but you fell asleep. You wake up at 2 AM and submit it late with a penalty.
Your roommate says, “Well, better late than never, at least you’ll get partial credit instead of a zero.”
2. Personal Health and Fitness
You’ve been meaning to start exercising for five years.
You finally join a gym at age 45, and your doctor says, “Better late than never! Starting now will still add years to your life and significantly improve your health outcomes.”
The American Heart Association confirms that adults who begin regular exercise in middle age still reduce their risk of heart disease by 30-40%,
Proving that better late than never isn’t just an idiom, it’s backed by medical science.
3. Professional Apologies and Relationships
You forgot your colleague’s birthday last month.
You bring them coffee and apologize today.
They laugh and say, “Better late than never, thanks for remembering!”
4. Major Life Decisions
Consider Vera Wang, the legendary fashion designer.
She didn’t design her first dress until age 40, after careers in figure skating and journalism.
When asked about her late start in fashion, she embodied “better late than never,” building a billion-dollar empire that proved timing isn’t everything.
5. Technology Adoption
Your 70-year-old parent finally agrees to learn how to use a smartphone after years of resistance.
You think to yourself, “Well, better late than never,” as you patiently explain how to send text messages.
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Similar Idioms With Related Meanings
“Better late than never” belongs to a family of expressions about timing, action, and priority.
Understanding these related idioms helps you choose the right phrase for each situation.
1. “Time waits for no one”: This phrase shows urgency rather than forgiveness.
While “better late than never” offers grace for delays, “time waits for no one” warns against procrastination.
They’re complementary opposites, one encourages action despite delay, the other encourages action before delay happens.
2. “A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush”: This idiom prioritizes tangible results over hypothetical better options.
It shares “better late than never’s” practical wisdom: something real (even if delayed or imperfect) beats something ideal that never materializes.
3. “Better safe than sorry”: Both phrases use the “better X than Y” structure to establish hierarchies of outcomes.
However, this one prioritizes caution while “better late than never” prioritizes completion.
4. “Rome wasn’t built in a day”: This shares the patient, long-term perspective of “better late than never.”
Both acknowledge that worthwhile things take time and that immediate results aren’t always realistic or necessary.
5. “No time like the present”: This encourages immediate action, making it a perfect companion to “better late than never.”
Together they say: the best time is now, but if “now” has passed, the second-best time is the current moment, not some future “perfect” moment.
We use different phrases from the same conceptual family depending on whether we’re motivating ourselves (better late than never), warning others (time waits for no one), or sharing practical wisdom (A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush).
Why “Better Late Than Never” Still Matters
In our culture of instant gratification and optimization, this ancient idiom is more relevant than ever.
Here’s why it still carries weight.
Encourages Action
We have seen people looking back on their lives consistently report regretting what they didn’t do more than what they did, even when actions led to negative outcomes.
“Better late than never” directly combats this inaction.
It removes the excuse of “I’ve already missed my chance.”
If it’s apologizing to an estranged family member, pursuing a deferred dream, or finally fixing that leaky faucet, this phrase gives people permission to start.
Think of it this way:
Every January, millions of people set fitness goals.
By February, 80% had abandoned them.
But someone who restarts their fitness journey in July using “better late than never” as motivation?
They’re still five months ahead of someone who waits until next January.
Reduces Guilt
Shame is one of the most powerful inhibitors of behavior change.
When people miss deadlines, forget commitments, or delay important tasks, guilt often compounds the problem, they feel so bad about being late that they avoid the task entirely.
“Better late than never” offers psychological redemption.
It acknowledges the delay without dwelling on it, allowing people to move from self-criticism to constructive action.
Dr. Kristin Neff from the University of Texas says, self-compassion (which this idiom implicitly promotes) is strongly correlated with motivation and achievement.
People who forgive themselves for delays are more likely to complete tasks than those who ruminate on their failures.
Promotes Completion
The idiom inherently values finishing over perfect timing.
In project management, this principle is gold.
The Pareto Principle (or 80/20 rule) shows that 80% of results come from 20% of efforts, meaning that done is often better than perfect.
It prioritizes completion, which in most contexts delivers more value than abandonment due to missed timing.
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Ask it to help you identify three things you’ve been postponing, then have it walk you through why “better late than never” applies to each.
Remember, posting it next week is better than never posting it at all.
Sometimes you need external permission to forgive yourself and just get started.
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Final Thoughts
Here’s what “better late than never” really teaches us: perfection is the enemy of progress.
In a world obsessed with optimization, peak performance, and “crushing it,” this humble idiom offers radical permission:
You can start behind. You can start after everyone else has finished.
And you know what? You should.
Because the alternative, letting shame, guilt, or missed timing prevent you from ever beginning, guarantees failure.
The question isn’t whether you’ve missed the “perfect” moment. You have. We all have, repeatedly, in countless ways.
The question is: Will you let that missed moment define you?
Or will you embrace the liberating truth that today is always a viable starting point?
Think about Vera Wang designing her first dress at 40.
Colonel Sanders franchising KFC at 62.
Julia Child publishing her first cookbook at 50.
The real message isn’t about being late. It’s about refusing to accept “never.”
Start today. Start imperfectly. Start late.
Because better late than never isn’t just an idiom.
It’s a philosophy for anyone brave enough to choose “late” over “never”, and in making that choice, discover that “late” was actually right on time after all.
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